Safety tips for online matrimony

Before you share personal details

• Keep conversations on Muthumina until you feel comfortable. Don't move to WhatsApp or phone calls too early.
• Don't share your home address, workplace details or NIC number in early conversations.
• Be careful with photos you send privately. Use Muthumina's photo privacy settings instead.

Never send money

• Never send money, gift cards or bank details to someone you haven't met, whatever the reason.
• Be wary of stories about emergencies, customs fees, visa costs or investment opportunities.
• A genuine partner, or their family, won't ask you for money before you've met.

Check before you trust

• Look for verified profiles and ask for a video call before meeting.
• Involve your family: a proposal discussed between families is harder to fake.
• If details in a profile don't add up, take your time and ask questions.

Meeting for the first time

• Meet in a public place, such as a café or restaurant, and tell a friend or family member where you'll be.
• Arrange your own transport and keep your phone charged.
• Many families prefer the first meeting to include parents or relatives. That's a good idea.

Report anything suspicious

If someone asks for money, behaves abusively or seems to be using a fake profile, report them from their profile page or block them. Our team reviews every report. If you are in danger, call the Sri Lanka Police emergency line on 119.